Unwrapping Wellness: 7 Small Christmas Day Habits That Boost Your Mood, Mind, and Body
It's now Christmas Day!
Somewhere between untangling string lights and mediating who gets the last gingerbread cookie, Christmas can feel less like a winter wonderland and more like a stress marathon with tinsel. If you've ever found yourself hiding in the bathroom during Christmas dinner just to breathe for five minutes, you're not alone.
Here's the truth bomb that nobody talks about at holiday parties: 64% of people living with a mental health condition report that their symptoms worsen during the holidays. And according to research, up to 65% of people experience heightened stress and anxiety during the holiday season. So if you're feeling the pressure, welcome to the club—we've got matching ugly sweaters.
But here's the good news: Christmas Day wellness doesn't require a complete lifestyle overhaul or a meditation retreat in the mountains. It's about tiny, intentional habits that protect your mental health while you're passing the mashed potatoes. Think of these as your wellness survival kit for December 25th—small enough to fit between gift-opening chaos, powerful enough to keep you sane.
1. Start With a Morning Moment (Before the Chaos Unleashes)
Before anyone demands to know where the batteries are, claim 10-15 minutes for yourself. This isn't selfish—it's strategic.
Whether it's sipping coffee while staring at the Christmas tree lights, doing five minutes of stretching, or simply sitting in blessed silence before the gift-unwrapping tornado begins, this buffer zone matters. Research demonstrates that exercise and mindfulness practices help reduce anxiety and boost mood, and you don't need an hour to benefit.
Try this: Set your alarm 15 minutes earlier than everyone else. Use those minutes however your soul needs—journal, meditate, do a few yoga stretches, or simply enjoy your coffee without someone asking you to find the Scotch tape.
Real talk: Jennifer Aniston swears by her morning routine, telling Forbes she doesn't pick up her phone until after walking her dogs, meditating, and journaling. You might not have her schedule, but you can steal the concept: protect your morning peace like it's the last piece of pie.
2. Move Your Body (Even If It's Just to Escape Aunt Carol's Political Rant)
Here's your permission slip to bail on conversations that make your blood pressure spike: "Excuse me, I'm going for a quick walk!"
Exercise releases feel-good chemicals in your brain that counter holiday stress. Regular physical activity can boost self-esteem, improve concentration, enhance sleep quality, and make you feel better overall. Plus, walking helps you process all those cookies without judgment.
Try this: Take a 20-30 minute walk before or after the big meal. Bonus points if you can rope in a family member for company—nothing says bonding like complaining about how full you are while moving at a leisurely pace.
Pro tip: If outdoor exercise feels overwhelming, volunteer to play with the kids. Twenty minutes of tag or helping build a snowman counts, and you'll be everyone's favorite adult.
3. Eat the Cookie, But Also Eat the Vegetables
Look, we're not the food police. Christmas calories don't count, right? Well, not exactly, but we're not here to ruin your fun either.
The reality is that massive blood sugar swings from eating nothing but sugar and carbs can tank your mood and energy. Too much sugar can noticeably affect your mental health and wellbeing in both the short and long term, so balance is your friend.
Try this: Before diving into dessert, make sure you've actually eaten some protein and vegetables. Load your plate with the good stuff first, then enjoy your treats guilt-free. Your blood sugar—and your mood—will thank you later.
Dr. Natasha Bijlani, a consultant psychiatrist at Priory Hospital Roehampton, emphasizes the importance of maintaining healthy habits: "Food and drink can greatly affect your physical and mental health. Avoid drinking too much alcohol or eating unhealthy foods out of boredom."
4. Set Boundaries Like Your Mental Health Depends on It (Because It Does)
Repeat after me: "No" is a complete sentence.
Family dynamics can be... complicated. That's putting it mildly for some of us. The holidays amplify every relationship tension you've been avoiding all year, and suddenly you're trapped in the living room with people who think your life choices are fascinating debate topics.
Try this: Before Christmas Day arrives, decide on your personal limits:
How long will you stay at gatherings?
Which topics are off-limits for discussion?
What's your exit strategy when Uncle Jerry starts his "back in my day" monologues?
Have a polite redirect ready: "I appreciate your concern, but let's talk about something else. Did you try Mom's new recipe?" Or simply, "Thanks for your thoughts. I'm going to grab some more eggnog."
Remember: Setting boundaries doesn't make you difficult—it makes you healthy. As boundaries are essential for managing stress during the holidays, especially with loved ones who may have different expectations.
5. Practice Sneaky Gratitude (The Mood Booster Nobody Sees Coming)
When your sister-in-law is critiquing your parenting style and your phone won't stop buzzing with work emails on Christmas Day, gratitude might be the last thing on your mind. But here's the secret: focusing on what's good literally rewires your stressed-out brain.
Studies show that people who practice gratitude are more optimistic, feel better about their lives, and have an overall positive view of their wellbeing. You don't need to make it complicated or Instagram-worthy.
Try this: Mentally note three things you're grateful for during the day. They can be tiny: "This coffee is perfect." "Nobody's fighting yet." "The dog looks cute in that bow tie." The key is shifting your focus, even momentarily, from what's stressing you to what's working.
Game-changer move: Share appreciations at dinner. Go around the table and have everyone share one thing they're thankful for. It shifts the energy in the room and gives everyone a moment to feel good. Plus, it's harder for people to be jerks right after expressing gratitude.
6. Take Intentional Breaks (Bathroom Breaks Count)
If you've ever hidden in the bathroom scrolling through your phone just to get five minutes away from the crowd, congratulations—you're human and you're practicing self-care.
Common stressors during Christmas include loneliness and being without family, but the opposite is also true—being with too much family can be overwhelming. Constant socializing drains your battery, especially if you're an introvert.
Try this: Schedule "reset moments" throughout the day:
Step outside for fresh air
Offer to walk the dog (even if you don't have a dog—borrow the neighbor's)
Take a long bathroom break
Volunteer for a solo task like taking out the trash or grabbing something from the car
These aren't escapes—they're essential mental health maintenance. Five minutes of solitude can prevent a meltdown.
7. Let Go of Perfect (Because It Doesn't Exist Anyway)
Here's a liberating truth: Norman Rockwell Christmas paintings are lies. Real Christmas is messy. The turkey might be dry. Someone will absolutely say something inappropriate. Gifts will be wrong sizes. Plans will fall through. And you know what? That's okay.
The pursuit of a "perfect" Christmas creates more stress than joy. One of the most relevant factors in Christmas depression is believing in the myth that everyone else is having a good time engaged in loving family relationships—a wish, but not necessarily reality.
Try this: Write down three things that would make the day good enough. Not perfect, just good enough. Maybe it's:
Everyone staying mostly civil
One genuine laugh
Getting through the day without burning anything major
Adjust your expectations to reality. When something goes sideways (and it will), practice self-compassion. Tell yourself what you'd tell a friend: "I'm doing my best. This is good enough."
Dr. Paul McLaren, consultant psychiatrist at Priory, notes that early intervention and self-awareness are vital: "Helping people accept their conditions and be aware of the signs can really improve their lifetime prognosis."
The Bottom Line: Be Kind to Yourself
Christmas Day wellness isn't about being zen while chaos swirls around you. It's about small, intentional choices that protect your mental health, physical wellbeing, and sanity. It's okay to not be merry every single second. It's okay to take breaks. It's okay to eat the cookie and set the boundary.
Your wellness matters—not just on Christmas, but every day. These seven habits are your toolkit for navigating December 25th with a little more peace and a lot more presence. Because the best gift you can give yourself this holiday season is permission to be human, imperfect, and real.
So go forth and have a good enough Christmas. That's not just okay—it's wonderful.
If you're struggling: Remember that it's always okay to reach out for help. The 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline is available 24/7 by calling or texting 988. You don't have to wait for a crisis—support is available whenever you need it.
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